Notice all of the lies they tell you? It's usually everyone is abusive and narcisstic and they lie all the damn time! by gloomy_bear in BPD

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I don't think you know me well enough to make that judgment.

I think you just need to learn to let some things go, stop wasting time dwelling on these damaged people and their insulting behavior. There's no battle to be won there.

Notice all of the lies they tell you? It's usually everyone is abusive and narcisstic and they lie all the damn time! by gloomy_bear in BPD

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And also, I don't think you understand disorders like BPD well.

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No, but I was just frustrated when I wrote this. Plus, in those settings, everyone wasn't an asshole to me; there's some people that I still contact from those places so not everyone was an asshole. Also, BPD cluster b's and C-PTSD is basically disorders that tell you you're an asshole.

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Has anyone ever told you that if everyone else is an asshole, maybe you're the asshole?

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The projection is unimaginable if you've never dealt with it.

The only way to win the game is tape it up and sell it at the garage sale to another poor soul. And NEVER buy the game again.

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100%

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Words to live by my man.

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They do exist it's just fakebians (lying bisexuals) outnumber the TRUE AND HONEST lesbians.

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Lesbians don't exist. All women want Chad first, if he's not around they go for fellow women.

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Don't ever date anyone with BPD or somebody that has C-PTSD and acts like a cluster b. In fact, don't ever go near anyone who trauma dumps within the first day that you get to know them, which many with BPD and C-PTSD do. They like to abuse you until you snap back and they'll use it against you. Many who are abused will end up abusing others.

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I don't know. This is a pretty typical response and list of excuses for their shitty behavior.

BPD and living with someone who has it is an amazing example of textbook human behavior in a subset of people. All the stories are exactly the same, the only things that changes are minor circumstances, names, faces, and locations. Every book you read makes you think there are cameras in your house, and you were being watched by the author.

Most people with this disorder speak exactly like this when making excuses. Whether they are self aware or not. A lot of them just think they are misunderstood and it's YOUR job to navigate it.

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I'm dubious they even have BPD. I'd put down money it was someone who just wants an excuse to be an asshole.

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Well that's my point. This was written by someone with BPD. That's why it's bullshit. Of course she sees herself as a delicate little flower that just needs nourishment and validation and everything will be okay.

It's never okay, it's never good enough, and it's a literal living hell.

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Sounds less like a description of BPD and more like my ex-wife.

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True, all the words are bullshit. But the four that make it impossible to be objective, realistic, and truthful about the hell you'll endure are, (someone who has BPD).

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all those words and the real advice is: don't

Amber Heard Diagnosed w/Borderline & Histrionic Personality Disorders by Psychologist by jet199 in BPD

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hello doc

Amber Heard Diagnosed w/Borderline & Histrionic Personality Disorders by Psychologist by jet199 in BPD

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All I see in the comments is misinformation, and a ton of BPD apologists. It's funny how tons of people come to the defense of BPD, but only when they have it themselves, anyone else see right through the bullshit. You will always be sold out at the expense of these people. Funny, every person with BPD self-proclaims how sweet and "empathetic" they are, yet everyone who's ever been in an interpersonal relationship with them have a laundry list of examples of how unbelievably horrible they are to other people.

Fuck Amber Heard, fuck anyone who defends BPD, and fuck anyone who who claims this is treatable to the masses. There are always anomalies, those do not make a standard. If you're one of them, good for you, although you could very well be lying, it's what they do.

The rubber always meets the road, and when it does, in this case, the only way to win the game with these people is to tape it up, and sell it at the garage sale to someone else, who's been waiting to buy the game anyway, and never buy another copy.

Amber Heard Diagnosed w/Borderline & Histrionic Personality Disorders by Psychologist by jet199 in BPD

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Longer vid

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XpTnSOr_-G8

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Sociopathy is a non-diagnostic term, and it is not synonymous with "psychopathy," though the overlap leads to frequent confusion. Sociopaths may or may not break the law, but by exploiting and manipulating others, they violate the trust that the human enterprise runs on.

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I'm not assuming anything, it was just an innocuous comment. I get it though.

You are good at something, I'd cut my balls off if you weren't, and I love them immensely. It doesn't have to be anything crazy, you're good at something. Hell, you might be the best at having a massively self-defeating attitude, you can even turn that around into learning how to teach others about it, even if you can't practice it yourself. I know how to cut and install crown molding, but I can't cut and install crown molding, you know??

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Anything I think I can do, she can show me how shit I am.

Please don't assume I care whether someone will pay for it.

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Everyone is good at something, and it can be built on, even if it's making the best grilled cheese in the world, someone will pay for it if it's your talent. You're gonna tell me you are good at NOTHING?

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I'm sorry, but the notion of me being talented in any respect is just laughable. If you wanted to see a talented version of me:

https://rdrama.net/@NotYou

https://www.reddit.com/user/cqtz-2v/comments/uuycwo/list_of_my_alt_accounts_and_the_subreddits_i_am/

https://saidit.net/user/cqtz

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Nope this wasn't it bud. Try again. Order a pizza now.

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Awe - now you want to act like you're not a triggered bipolar moron.

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Nope this wasn't it. Try again. Make a sandwich first.

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Oh dear - triggered again 🤣

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What a pussy! Reporting? What a faggot. Get fucked pussy.

I recommend you stop buttfucking your stepdad.

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I recommend that you stop attacking people so that I don't have to report you 98% of the time, jerk. Stop thinking that your excuses for yourself are sufficient. They're not.

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Listen, that's a rub, I get it. I don't want to sound harsh, but you're always so hard on yourself, and when you speak in absolutes like that (always/everything), it makes it sound reaching because it's frankly not possible.

I one hundred percent understand how unbelievably hard it is to see your worth when you feel worthless. I have had, and do have those issues. Albeit for different reasons, in fact the only time and person on this planet that can make me feel worthless is the BPD succubus I have encountered. Not so much anymore, but I held onto this stuff for a very long time. The fact is, you have worth, you have to be talented at something(drawing), and it's finding those things and building on them that's the key.

You didn't ask to be born, remove the people that manifest bad behavior towards you, and for fucks sake you actually said you have BPD, you've taken a step that a vast majority of afflicted people never take. Washing this off is impossible, but how you react to your feelings and how you let your behavior manifest is completely under your control. It's not easy, believe me, I understand. I would not want the burden you have, but I have my own, and while there are certainly tougher roads than others, but it really doesn't have to be this hard. It really doesn't. Some of it is just a simple choice. Start there.

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And as far as BPD, my one parent probably has it, and myself as well. It's caused me endless trauma on top of what I already have to deal with by simply existing. Everything was always my fault, I already hate myself and having my own parent blame me for things I couldn't control only reinforced this feeling. More yet, it's left me paranoid about every tiny action I make; I'm such a terrible abomination that I have to walk on eggshells all the time so I don't ruin everyone's lives, everything I touch breaks and everything I get involved with falls apart. And my parent was always the victim, even if I'm in despair to the point of harming myself, somehow they're the real victim and it's all my fault!

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And your mind is genetic. If you're highly sensitive, you're unlikely to have a satisfying life. If you lack talent, it will be very hard if not impossible to even do things for fun, let alone achieve dreams. If you have gender dysphoria, you're stuck with a state of distress which cannot be fixed, and forever resentful about it. If you have ALL of those problems, it's nearly hopeless. If you have unstable relationships and no access to emotional support in addition to that, you might as well not even live. And if there's someone else who's exactly like you except with none of those problems and every bit of success you ever dreamed of, you can be sure that what the universe has against you is purely personal.

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No way. I've been both and everything in between. Your mind controls everything. Your dealing of your circumstances weighs heavily. Things are tough all over.

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90% of your happiness is genetic.

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I wish my own family would realize the same about me.

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Yeah the bad behavior manifests similarly between the two. With Bipolar being more of a mood disorder, and way easier to handle by the way, and BPD is more of a personality disorder, which manifests in much more harmful behavior to the people in their orbit.

It is sad, and while these people "deserve" love, they just aren't going to get it from me. I truly believe that 90 percent of your happiness comes from who you choose to surround yourself with, and the martyrdom you have to display to keep things even keel with these people is robbing you of yourself.

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Thanks I'll check it out. I don't really listen to podcasts, so anything new will be welcome.

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I recommend the Disaffected podcast on this subject

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I sympathize. My brother developed OCD from repeated strep throat infections and that totally fucked our family. Not sure it has had a great influence on the family he started either. And my SIL is either BPD or bipolar -- I forget. The two happiest days in my life are when they moved away and I remain grateful for it.