Notice all of the lies they tell you? It's usually everyone is abusive and narcisstic and they lie all the damn time!

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[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Has anyone ever told you that if everyone else is an asshole, maybe you're the asshole?

[–]gloomy_bear[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, but I was just frustrated when I wrote this. Plus, in those settings, everyone wasn't an asshole to me; there's some people that I still contact from those places so not everyone was an asshole. Also, BPD cluster b's and C-PTSD is basically disorders that tell you you're an asshole.

[–]gloomy_bear[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

And also, I don't think you understand disorders like BPD well.

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I don't think you know me well enough to make that judgment.

I think you just need to learn to let some things go, stop wasting time dwelling on these damaged people and their insulting behavior. There's no battle to be won there.