Is it gay if as a cis man I fuck trans women?

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[–]hfxB0oyA 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

Hey, don't let that stop you, faggot.

[–]gloomy_bear 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

Yes, very.

[–]YoMamma 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

nope - not at all

it's potentially bisexual

it's also none of our business

[–]gloomy_bear 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I would say they're at least bisexual tbh. I'm somebody that prefers feminity and I call myself bisexual due to preferring both feminine females and feminine males. Of course, masculinity can be attractive, but it's very rare for me to be attracted to masculine males and females. Ironically enough, I've only dated two masculine males and one masculine presenting female (but tbh I wonder if she's genuinely feminine).

Of course, if a man likes a transwoman, I don't have any issue with that. The issue is when they dance around the topic and end up playing mental gymnastics on how it's not homosexual sex (if the transsexual is pre-op). Kinda reminds me of those fakebians and bihets who dance around on how they're totally TRUE AND HONEST homosexuals despite being attracted to men.

Fuck the 403 error

[–]YoMamma 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Thanks for the explanation. I have to admit I think I've never met anyone who it seems would have called himself or herself a fakebian, bihet or feminine male. I also have trouble using the term 'them' to describe a him or her or a non-binary person, as that's just bad English usage IMO. I'm more familiar with people keeping that stuff to themselves, or at least not bothering me with their special words for themselves. I think that trans women look too much like men to be attrative to straight men, but I think a straight man who is somehow attracted to a trans woman isn't necessarily gay and attracted to other men, even if we could automatically think that. My view is that their sexual preferences are private matters for themselves, and that everyone has his or her kinks, even if initially unaware of them.

[–]gloomy_bear 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Well the fakebians and bihets usually call themselves lesbians. Most of the feminine men now days transitioned into a mtf transsexual or a nonbinary generally. And with the they/them stuff, I don't understand language well, so imagine trying to understand that on top of not understanding language. It's hard.

[–]YoMamma 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Most of the feminine men now days transitioned into a mtf transsexual or a nonbinary generally.

Potentially makes sense, but I doubt this kind of information is available or quantified in a survey

[–]gloomy_bear 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Probably not, but for the most part, that's what I've witnessed.

[–]Jihadist 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

99% gay

100% gay if you let him on top

[–]detty 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (6 children)

For a male, willingly engaging in a sexual intercourse with another male could be indicative of homosexual tendencies. Hope this helps.

[–]YoMamma 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Indeed, this is the kind of disinformation spread by the Kremlin. There is a variety of trans women and thus much more than one interpretaiton of them.

[–]detty 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I love you, Socks. Please never change and never stop being retarded.

[–]YoMamma 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Seems you love making contradictory statements. Another favorite practice of the the Republic of Putinia.

[–]detty 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Glad you're taking interest in learning Russian, though you should keep in mind that wiktionary definitions for foreign words are often incorrect.

Also, I don't see how existence of a word describing a concept in a language implies that the whole culture of the speakers is based around that concept. Care to explain your line of thought?

[–]YoMamma 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I didn't include the link in order to discuss philology. Nor should one try to explain such a broad and generalized assumption as your sentence. Putin and Russian news media are known for their lies, to the point that they and many in their audiences supposedly know that they are believing lies. (For example: Russian reasons for invading Ukraine. All lies. The reasons so many people fall out of windows in Russia. Also lies. They have a saying: at least he had the courtesy to close the window before jumping. That's a type of враньё whereby the audience knows they're being lied to about the reason a judge or politician, or banker jumped out of a window.) Here are your contradictions, lies, and враньё:

1) You assume trans women are male. (They're not just male.)

2) You 'love' anonymous 'retarded' people. (You don't.)

3) You're 'glad' because you think I am interested in learning Russian. (You can't be because you don't know.)

4) You assume that I've claimed that 'a word describing a concept' implies that a whole culture is based on that concept. (That's NOT the meaning of a "favorite practice of the the Republic of Putinia'.)

[–]Gravi 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Quoting Wikipedia is your past time activity!

[–]SMCAB 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I'm a little detached from what these mentally ill people describe themselves as, but this is two dudes fucking? It's two dudes fucking right? Yeah, that's gay.

[–]xoenix 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This comedian talks about it.

[–]jw329 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

there is no word yet to describe a man who will fuck a man who looks like a women but will not fuck a man who looks like a man. gay means a man that sleeps with a man who looks like a man.

pretty complicated right? Man women labels will needed updating as trans will get more common.

Technically in the bible sense it would be "gay"

I would not let it bother you. I would fuck a transgender women. I dont care what labels say or what people say.

I would never fuck a transgender man(women who transitioned into a man and now looks like a man) that's more gay in my eyes then fucking a trans women.

Have fun in life don't let society stop you from getting your dick sucked

[–]Jiminy 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Having fun in the moment is one thing but not fun to lose all friends and family and be ostracized. It's like fucking a fat girl, you don't want your friends to know

[–]jw329 2 insightful - 3 fun2 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

It's true. You will most likely lose friends and family but a real man fucks what he wants and not fucks only what others want him to fuck. Might as well get the fake vaccine if you bow down to what others want you to do.

[–]Jiminy 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yes