Why do women only go for asshole bad boys and refuse to date good guys like us?

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[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

Women are attracted to power, not people. Whether it is physical power, aesthetic power, economic power or social power. Bad boys seem to have power to impose their will.

But this raises the question: if women are attracted to power and not people—that is, they’re incapable of loving men in the way they fantasize—what is the point of dating women? No homo, but it is better to find a hobby and pursue it rather than chase women. Loneliness is just an unfortunate side effect of being alive.

[–]yelgy 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

femboys

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Sex is for procreation, and women love you for what you have and not what you are, so what’s the point of dating them?

Men and woman have different notions of love, so the only thing they bring to the table is sex.

[–]yelgy 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

this is exactly why i have a femboy addiction

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If sex is for only procreation and the Catholics are right, then that is pretty brutal news. And also the fact that women only love you for what you have...scratch it, I guess you can say the same thing about men to women too.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Men invented the genre of romance. A women does not love anyone in a selfless way but her child.

[–]trident765 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Knowledge and human power are synonymous, since the ignorance of the cause frustrates the effect

--Francis Bacon

Does this mean that women are attracted to really knowledgeable guys?

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I define power as the ability to make others do what you want. Knowledgeable people won’t attract women unless they are rich or something.

[–]yabbit[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

all high iq guys are incels

[–]yabbit[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

exactly women can't love I keep saying this on reddit but those faggots keep banning me

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Most humans don’t care about the truth but just justifying what feels good.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It's good to want to have hobbies and buddies, but nothing can replicate or replace the experience of sex with the opposite gender and the other relationship elements associated with that.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Other relationship elements feel good, but they are false. Once you run out of resources the woman you love want to move on.