speaking as a woman, its not all its cracked up to be. Finding a good sex partner is hard, and sex is really messy and mostly disappointing. Maybe i've just been unlucky because i'm autistic, ugly, and find most people to be unbearably boring, but my dreams of a prince who would perform better than my fingers are long dead.

On top of that, i'm weak. I mean, I try. I learnt a bunch of boy skills and am generally as butch as I can be, but most guys cand push me around without any chance of me winning on strength.

Yes, being a mum is good, and things are generally easier financially. The state looks after us well, but the number of jobs i've not got because i'm not a grey haired dude are high. That sex discrimination is still real in the upper management world.

you talk of 'fucking someone who is a success', but you have no idea the competition there. The rich guys know they are valuable and play you hard. fuck only knows how you are supposed to take control of them. A skill I don't have.

I think "the grass is greener" might come into play.