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What's Going on with Asians/Dating in Seattle?OC self.AsianMasculinity

submitted 11 hours ago by AntelopeBig9250

[–]WomenPickMales 41 points 10 hours ago From experience, XMAF (non-Asian man + Asian woman) only exists because these guys can't get any other women. I have friends and family who are WM and you can tell that even if they do have GFs, WF, AF, whatever, there's this sort of "struggle" they have, it's not raw burning sexuality, it's one of the reasons why many non-Asian guys are on edge compared to Asian guys. Asian women, for better or worse, are culturally born and bred to simply be bought and sold, and they pride themselves on it at worst, and at best just accept it as "how life is". I wish I was exaggerating. Asian women are basically the borg, they have ZERO qualms about prostituting themselves (even if it's with an Asian man); whereas with non-Asian women, they may do it, but will go out of their way to cheat or pretend it's something else. Everything, I mean EVERYTHING, an Asian woman does is out of nothing but pure nihilistic pragmatism. I literally have a woman in my family (from Asia) who threatened her dad to send her money while in the US, or she would prostitute herself.

Would it be full of mixed children raised by weird, saved from the brink of inceldom men? With such high out-marriage rates, are these saved from inceldom men from other races the first thing people are going to think of when they think of Asian America?

I am a WMAF hapa. My dad could not get a white woman, to not mince words. He had several autistic problems. I look predominantly Asian, which ironically saved me I think. There are a lot of hapas who are raised by unattractive incel guys, and their golddigging mothers also raise them to be self loathing. Like Elliot Rodger. Not good. I know a bunch of these hapas, they're basically all aging and alone. What do AF get out of it? Well basically they get a punching bag they don't have to sleep with, and can take his money, integrate, and avoid being seen as an outsider. So it fits Asian women's cultural mentalities very well. As far as I understand Seattle and most American cities are extremely expensive, but these tech nerds have extremely high salaries. So Asian women basically prostitute themselves for money. I have AF in my family, and I assure you - no woman, of any race, can come close to the utter and completely nihilistic manner in which Asian women simply matter-of-fact agree to sell themselves, to any man. These Chinese saying was: "I'd rather cry in the back of a BMW, than smile on the back of a bicycle." That explains A LOT about Asian culture and women. They know perfectly well they could love a man for who he is, but they choose not to. Asian men should understand that there are non-AF who can love us even when we don't have much, where as AF will go for a man she literally hates, just so long as it benefits her. That's just how the world is. A great example is Asmongold, who has a golddigging AF girlfriend who won't even look at him. Meanwhile his ex dumped him for being gross, and married a broke, nobody AM who she is deeply in love with.

[–]Sanguinius___ 22 points 9 hours ago Sad to see how asian women do this, and bring down the community with them while at it.

[–]owlficus 6 points 7 hours ago Wt heck with equating AFs with prostitutes. Holy hell…Asian women are not all “mail order brides .” As far as your username- women pick males yes, but out of the subset of males who approach them. And guess what- WMs are gonna be the vast majority, that’s objective math at play. You say your dad isn’t a catch,with his autism and whatnot- but I guarantee your mom has issues too that perhaps were dealbreakers for most men. She didn’t look past his autism because he was white, they looked past each other’s issues

[–]KoXin 3 points 4 hours ago How the fuck did this reply get so many upvotes? Materialistic women exist everywhere, it is not exclusive nor inherent in Asian women. Find whoever you want, date whoever you want, but for fucks sake hating on AF is not the fucking answer.

[–]nycguy0001 -2 points 9 hours ago Is this mainly from the older generation ? I feel like the AF with WM these days are pretty good looking , wealthy and social circle

[–]owlficus 7 points 7 hours ago We tend to overanalyze the dating situation and apply an undercurrent of blamefulness. Truth is, AFs give everyone a shot, and wind up with those who shoot their shot. Apart from isolated cases, most AFs are not going around automatically rejecting the AMs who ask them out

[–]Sihairenjia 8 points 6 hours ago This is a lazy argument - pretty sure they are not giving black men & Latino men the same shot; or Indian men, for that matter, if they're East Asian. In tech. communities where Asians make up ~40% of the population, and Asians + other minorities combined make up ~50%, the amount of WMAF relative to other interracial couples is alarmingly high. Nothing can explain it outside of racism.

[–]owlficus -3 points 5 hours ago Did you even read the original post? OP is saying he saw AFs with all types of men- as I do whenever I go to NYC, including black men. Doesn’t matter how much the population of AMs are when they’re not putting themselves out there in the dating world- to be fair yt men would be just as incelly if they weren’t extremely motivated by their fetish for AFs- esp the tech bros The study you linked states that Asian Americans tend to consider relationships later in life than other races (which further supports my point that the fetishizers are beating AMs to the game) and that women all prefer taller men. Neither point to active exclusion of AMs, or as you put it, “(self) racism”

Same worthless as fuck simp f&gg0ts constantly allowed in because the sub is run by two rang-chasing fucking cuckolds.