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Has anyone seen any WMAF or AMWF couples that are pro-Asian? (self.aznidentity)

submitted 4 hours ago by aiya_aiyu

I guess I'm speaking from anecdotal experience, but all the WMAF and AMWF couples I know, whenever I look at their mutual friendship circles, everyone is white. The AM or AF is the only Asian in their friend group. I went to an AMWF wedding last year and the AM had zero Asian guy friends. Zero. All of his friends were white guys. The only Asians at his wedding were his bloodline family members, and the spouses of 2-3 of his white guy friends. I honestly think I was his only Asian friend he invited from his side. This guy went to two Ivy League schools too, so he's highly, highly educated. Same with my WMAF friends - when I look at pictures on social media, the AF is the only Asian in the couple's friend group. I'm sure some of this has to do with geographical location too, but I feel like if these couples associated equally with Asians/whites, then there would be less stigma with "losing your culture" "wannabe white" "self-hating," etc. And yes, I'm aware that WMAF is way more prevalent, but the AM I know that are married to WF are also wannabe whites. Is this different in more Asian-dominated cities where mixed couples still interact healthily with Asians/Asian friends/communities? Or is it really "once you marry white then you voluntarily exiled yourself from associating with Asians"?


What do people do when someone is clearly trying to be friends with you just because you're Asian? by aiya_aiyu in aznidentity

[–]aiya_aiyu[S] 6 points 7 days ago I'm an AF and white girls do this to me

You really thought a sub with a fucking LU mod and poocel head mod was going to be "Pro-AsiAN"? There is no direction for aiNCELS. Only mass-simping, censoring, and shilling for anti-Asian us politicians.