Why are you here, and how has pornography negatively affected your life? by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Virgee 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Before coming out as a lesbian, I dated a few guys, most of whom consumed (and probably still do) pornography.

I'm still unable to believe how violent they were in the bedroom and how they believed it was absolutely okay to replicate what they saw in porn without even bothering to check for consent first! Anything from deepthroating to anal and even hitting and chocking.

All my saidit lesbians where you at? by [deleted] in Lesbians

[–]Virgee 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I haven't used reddit for a while... Have the mods changed or something ?

What sort of lesbian stories would you like to see? by writerlylesbian in Lesbians

[–]Virgee 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Love your ideas!

Another story I'd like to read is a lesbian heist story. Never found one.

And in general, I'm usually looking for any lesbian stories that aren't about coming out. (not that coming out stories aren't important, I'm just tired of reading them...)

How best to find other GC people in my area (IRL)? by Futon_Everlasting in GenderCritical

[–]Virgee 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

The GenderCritial account on Twitter posted a list of orgs in a few countries. I would definitely start there.

Be careful with your personal information and when meeting irl, especially if you have something to loose by being doxxed. My local organisation only gives the location of meeting an hour or two before, and only the the peuple attending, but once or twice it still wasn't enough...