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[–]hfxB0oyA[S] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

I was in a relationship with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder (see: Amber Heard), and as I started to figure that out, I also started to see how similar abusive behaviours are manifesting in the woke online world. This interview lays it all out more succinctly than I ever could.

[–]SMCAB 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I've spent the majority of my adult life attracting BPD, and Bi-Polar women. Yes, i have it figured out, and no, I don't do it anymore, not for relationships anyway, hahaha. Fuck they are exciting, but the damage they have caused me is irreversible. The gaslighting, the lies, the push-pull, the whole thing, just simply maddening. I can't be mad, it taught me alot, and in the end I'm to blame, I knew who they were, and I did it anyway. The blowjobs just aren't the same anymore. Haha.

Yes, this lays it out very well.

[–]jet199 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You aren't attracting them.

They will throw themselves at any man.

Some times sympathy is a weakness.

[–]SMCAB 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

It would be better said that my admitted co-dependancy and my equating being needed to being loved made me stay with them through all the bullshit. I agree with you.

With that said, they do have an internal radar for people like me. No doubt about it. They can sniff out, very early, people that like to provide.

[–]jet199 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

That's also why they love the government and hand outs so much.