I remember, when I was a kid, I got in trouble for making a joke that Lesbians shouldn't be allowed to buy strap-ons and dildos because "They made their choice, damnit!"...

... Now there are forums full of men trying to convince each other they are Lesbians and twisting themselves into mental knots to explain how their penis is a big clitoris and getting head feels Just like their partner is pleasuring a woman. If young me had taken that joke to the most insane extreme, he still would have been miles short of how absurd reality became.