This reminds me of something I saw recently (may have been here?) where a FTM troon got mad because a coworker figured out the cheat code to get around using the troon’s she/her pronouns. The colleague would refer to him instead as “my esteemed colleague”. The troon even went to HR and was told that the colleague hadn’t done anything wrong.

In other words, the women at this guy’s workplace have found a way to not play his game and he’s upset about it.

Just show up and do your job. It’s work. Normal people don’t go to work looking to inflict themselves on others.