Costs nothing to be mean either. Stupid argument.

Here's the thing, I'll be nice to people as a default, and that includes trans-people, because in 99% of situations there's not much reason to treat them any differently than anyone else. You come into my shop and want to buy tampons? Ok why wouldn't I sell them to you? Maybe you are buying them for your husband, I don't know, I don't care, here's your shit. Have a nice day.

You think I should give you the tampons for free because of how much you suffer from oppression, sorry sir in this shop we believe in money.

There is a cost to bring nice to crazy psycophatic types. Those transtrender Karen types, like any Karen crybully, is trying to invoke a pity response from third parties and then use that to manipulate them into giving you something. If you'll put up with rediculous nonsense they'll identify you as someone they can control and they'll find more and more ways to exploit you. Including painting you as the horrid transphobe to your social circle once all the sane people have left leaving you with no choice, or you can be a "cunt" to them straight out and tell them the N word. No.

They'll whine and complain but literally none of it will get back to you if you are consistent from the beginning and not being a retard about it and apologizing for stepping on feelings. What it does do is paint you as someone they'll avoid leaving your life relatively bullshit free.

It's common with anything. I've had people try to do it with me before. Someone in a group I'm in posts some bad factually incorrect information that might mislead people. I'll respond with "That information is completely incorrect, where did you get that idea?" because I want to sincerely understand why they think that and where that information comes from. Then five women I've never known all come out of the woodwork to defend how I've been rude to their friend and how I need to apologize right now, no. I need to privately ask nicely if it's ok to correct them or some shit so they can make up some way to cancel me first no doubt. Fuck that shit. What you said is wrong. I've got proof that it's wrong. And nothing about it is rude. Zero apologies needed. If you are worried about your reputation being sullied by posting misleading information, check your information before you post it. They whined and complained but it goes nowhere and as soon as they see I'm not going to budge on it, and on the contrary snap back that the continued messaging and goading for the apology after I've said no constitutes a very clear cut case of harassment, they leave to fine an easy victim to bully.

How I deal with twitter storms. Is the complaint constructive and substantive? No? Is it a bunch of stupid bullshit nobody who isnt crazy would believe, awesome, free fucking publicity. Go ahead and scream transphobia on the no men in the women's restroom policy. If it scares off the men that want to use the women's restroom it's a win, you are publicizing my place for me for free. Awesome. It's not like I'm going to deny the trans people service or use of the private handicap restroom if they wish.