also why they get so buttmad about "not all LGBTs make it their entire personality, y'know": they openly don't want to talk about anything else, do anything else, or have anyone else think about anything else--genderfluidity notoriously demands you expect to change pronouns by the day or the hour: it's all about getting into someone else's head, making them pliant to your whim alone

remember the "gentle reminder" to go to a cafe with your friends and practice using the right pronoun for an hour before first meeting someone who changed?

and of course it's people with the wherewithal to be on their phone 18 hours a day like Boomers with their cable TV, it's fuckin' morbid