Ok so here is my take on what is possibly at the root of her tantrum. I think most people are familiar with the idea that someone could be going through a very rough time, bereavement, job loss, discovering their partner is having an affair, infertility, etc. They keep on getting on with life with a degree of stoicism and then one day they come home realise realise the guy at the takeaway forgot to put their chips in their bag of food and they just bursting into tears. It's not the chips, it's the other shit and the chips are just the last straw.

So I'm looking at this woman's wife. She's a they/them with a face shape and voice that suggests she's taking testosterone and her shirt open to display her mastectomy. It's possible that this fairly young looking woman married a woman she loved and not too long after Azul started to troon out. The sane reaction is to get a divorce or annulment if possible. But people often stay in relationships long after a communists parade of red flags has marched through it. Especially after marriage. I think this woman could be being emotionally abused by her transthey wife and dragged into identifying herself in the same way. She's been sad and scared for quite a while and the absolute rejection of the cult she's found herself trapped in by normal members of the community she thinks is meant to be all in with, has broken her.

I could be way off base but I genuinely get a manipulative vibe from the wife. The way she strokes her "comfortingly" while continuing to rile her up with her words. All while making sure her own chest gets in the video seems like she's pulling the strings of the crying woman.