What happens when the majority decide my 'unwoke' ideology is toxic?

They did, it's why our asses are on Saidit. But I don't think anyone is telling adults how to live (yet), the two main points are leave the kids alone, and we don't want to play gender pretend. There is a slight issue with some of the people who align in these goals. Man hating feminism has gotten a tremendous boost, as have traditional Christian groups, and Republicans. That could end up having unintended consequences. But those are our future selves problems, and the problem we have at hand is the transgender cult.