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Seriously! I remember being a teen playing basketball with some male friends, just some super casual friendly shit. I got nudged how they'd nudge one of their male friends and I went flying lol. He literally did not intend to do that and was so shocked/apologetic after. If he can do that without even trying imagine what damage he'd be able to do if he actually wanted to.

Anyone in any doubt needs to do something like that. It might knock some sense into them when they realise how overwhelming it is. Frankly it's terrifying the first time you encounter it and realise how vulnerable you actually are. Same when I playfight with my bf and I know he's not even trying and I won't be able to move. Like how have they never done anything like these things? The only thing I can think of is that everyone has always handled them with the kid gloves but even then teens/young men often don't know their own strength and destroy you by accident lol.