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[–]FrothySolutions 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (10 children)

No prostitutes. I was under the assumption that you could teach me how to do it the way you did it.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I can, let’s do this.

Do you work?

We need a lot of small wins. First, you need to trust me. This will take like 3 months to a year, depending on how well we can work on ourselves. I will share all my tips and tricks.

Do you work out?

And what are your interests?

And are you willing to try, and maybe it not work out the first 10 times. But I can guarantee, effort will pay off.

[–]FrothySolutions 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

Yes, I work. Yes, I lift. No, I have no interests except escaping inceldom.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Okay good.

You are half way there.

You need an interest, other than escaping inceldom. Women love you, you just don’t know that yet. You will escape inceldom, when you realize you were never an incel.

You need some kind of hobby, the gym can count. Like you can do gym dates.

Look, I’m fat. Are you fit at all?

And you seem smart enough. Are you able to memorize jokes?

[–]FrothySolutions 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

I consider myself fit.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Okay good.

Now you just need to build up your confidence, get a hobby, and practice dating.

Do you have a bumble?

These are all things that guys who get laid do. They have a good profile, they have hobbies, and they have confidence. And they have practice dating.

This is a process. And you have to expect to be turned down. But it will be a growing process, and you will feel better abiut your self after.

[–]FrothySolutions 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

What? No no no, this is basic shit. Obviously I tried that or I wouldn't be here. I thought you had knowledge beyond that.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

What do you mean you have tried basic shit?

[–]FrothySolutions 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I've practiced dating. I've done Tinder, I've curated my profile, posted my interests, tried to show myself as an interesting and well rounded person. That hasn't worked out for me.

And now I'm fucking 50 and it still hasn't worked out for me. I thought my failures were because of some secret knowledge I didn't know, some secret knowledge you were gonna tell me.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No, That’s it. I talk to lots of people. And memorized dad jokes. That’s it.

I can’t offer any more help not knowing who you are.

But you just said everything that has worked for me.

[–]Node 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's totally learnable if you have self-control, because it's just behaviors. (thoughts and maintaining beliefs being internal behaviors, and precursors to external behaviors) Whether RMM can teach that is a different question, although his comment and plan sound credible.