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[–]TruthTeller 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

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    [–]radfem[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Intentions do matter, do they matter more than the impact you have though?

    For instance, you’re driving and take your eyes off the road for a moment and hit someone, killing them... your intention of course wasn’t to kill them and the judge will likely take that into consideration during the trial but still...

    You’ve killed someone, same result as if you deliberately ran them down. Their family won’t miss them less just because you didn’t mean to kill them.

    We tend to focus a lot on our intentions sometimes without giving much thought to that fact that our actions have had devastating effects regardless.

    I’ve also noticed that the intent with which people say, ‘my intentions were good’ differs. Some say it to give context to their actions, to assure the wronged person they didn’t mean to hurt them with no denial of the hurt they caused... others use it to excuse the hurt they’ve caused, ‘my intentions were good... so you can’t blame me if you got hurt’.