We are hated because men can't bribe us into submission by promising to change

submitted by WhyDoesHeDoThat from self.PinkPillFeminism

Many feminists, gender critical or not, and even women in general think men can be changed. Meaning, men can stop being men (raping, abusing, killing women) and become non-violent like women. What needs to be done to change men depends on the woman's political or philosophical standpoint. Right wing women think that if men just become god-fearing christians then men will stop being violent. Left wing women think if men embrace socialism then men will stop being violent. And women who are TRA believe that if men accept trans identities then men will stop being violent. None of this is true of course, since christian men, socialist men and TRA men still abuse and kill women.

This idea of changing men is also used to control women. Women, no matter their political affiliation, all want to be safe from male violence. And men dangle this safety in front of women like a carrot on a stick to get her to do what he wants. Right wing men tell women if they're good loyal christian wives they'll be safe from male violence. Left wing men tell women if they help the socialist party get in power she'll be safe from male violence. And TRAs tell women if they just believe TWAW then she'll be safe from male violence. Haven't you heard this reasoning yourself from TRAs? That if everyone just accepted TWAW then female oppression would just magically vanish. But men can't change. Men are just as violent no matter their beliefs or their view of transpeople. Women want to blame male violence on politics, religion, upbringing, transphobia to avoid facing the real reason for male violence: Maleness.

Many gender critical women are guilty of the same denial about men. They think it's transgenderism that makes these men hate women so violently. It's not. It's the fact that they're men, and men hate women.

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[–]nonpenishaver 10 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

I don't want to shit on hetero women since I know a lot of them are pinkpilled, but I really think the vast majority of heterosexual women will never be able to see men for what they are. No matter how steeped in feminist theory they are, the idea of being alone forever is too painful so they make up reasons why men can change. They what to believe that what men show us about themselves isn't "the real them". It's brainwashing by some outside force like patriarchy or capitalism or atheism or whatever.

[–]Questionable 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The belief of the id, or ego is a fallacy pushed by Sigmund Fraud. It traps people into a belief that the have no control over, and are not responsible for their own actions. This is similar to many religions that offer forgiveness for your sins. It creates a monetary system for immoral behavior. One where you only need to forgive your own loans, or let a magical sky person forgive them for you. Just following orders, I'll never do it again, even, me too. These are all actions where the person perpetrating wrongs sees themselves as virtuous, in hindsight or doing the wrong things for the right reason.

Man, I wish I where going someplace with this, but to be honest, I barely skimmed your post, and have been drinking to put myself down, since I have work in the morning. Hopefully I said something in all that mess that makes sense to you. And to future me once I'm off work tomorrow.

Good night all!