Redditor Gets HPV From Cheating - Debating Whether to Hide it From Spouse or not

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[–]Musky 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

What a heartless bitch

It's pretty common when you only ever have one partner to wonder how the grass is on the other side. Most (straight) guys seem to think they want a virginal bride. You really don't because this is what happens years down the road. And then when they get that new guy, there's that "new relationship energy" (r/adultery terminology) -- the new guy seems perfect, and the old guy seems shitty in comparison. At first. It's all new to her.

She's not going to leave her SO, her AP (affair partner) wants them to be together and she's not interested. That's a common theme in that sub. The whole thing is probably going to self destruct eventually since the only person getting what they want is her. It's all fun and games when you get to have your cake and eat it too.

She's probably just going to fuck up things with both guys and end up a middle aged woman with a history of cheating. She's going to be at a disadvantage. Hopefully the courts don't fuck the husband over.

[–]RedEyedWarrior 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I'm not a straight guy, so I wouldn't know. I assume that straight guys who want virgins think that if a married woman has only had experience with her husband she won't know any better. And yes, a lot of women who were virgins when they got married are loyal wives. But everybody is different. And frankly, we used to have laws that made adultery a crime - or at least a ground for divorce - so marrying a woman wasn't an issue. If you do marry a virgin, be prepared to nip it right in the bud should your spouse get curious about greener pastures.

[–]Musky 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I assume that straight guys who want virgins think that if a married woman has only had experience with her husband she won't know any better

I think it's more some guys don't want a hill someone else has planted their flag on.

And yes, a lot of women who were virgins when they got married are loyal wives.

Sure, but they're always going to wonder what it'd be like with someone else.

If you do marry a virgin, be prepared to nip it right in the bud should your spouse get curious about greener pastures.

So 22 years down the road when the curiosity becomes unbearable to her and a slump in the relationship brings things to a head and she says, gee, Red, I just want to know if I'm missing out. Do you love your exclusive claim to her more than her happiness?

Much better if she's already had a few loser boyfriends so you look really awesome in comparison and she knows there's nothing she's missing out on.

[–]Rastafoo[S] 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I really hope no one takes Musky seriously lmao

[–]Musky 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What do you think I'm wrong about?