The fact of the matter is that sadly many girls and women regardless of their sexuality have been attacked by men.

Yes. That’s true. It could happen of a lesbian get raped and in this case the rape has nothing to do with her sexual orientation but I’m not talking of this. I’m talking of women who “decide to become a lesbian” because they were sexually abused, or because mEn SuKc (might not be abused but have problems with men), those women do exist. You haven’t really looked around on internet you haven’t seen them yet, they are on anything “lesbian”. While I feel sorry for anyone who have been sexually abused, including them, I won’t stop see them as what they are and do to lesbians when talking of lesbian stuff. They appropriate lesbianism for political reasons and they feed lesbophobic bs and that’s not the only bad part, imagine you’re in a relationship with a woman and then find out that she isn’t doesn’t even genuinely like women, you’re just a cope tool for her to have a false sense of control!? They are political lesbians, political lesbians are bad for lesbians.

Being a rape victim can’t keep one from criticism when criticism fit. Understanding someone’s behavior originates from deep trauma don’t absolves them from their responsibilities nor necessitates our absolute silence tolerance.

Also, why don’t they just stop putting themselves in relationships with men? If they don’t want to be in relationships with men, or have anything to do with men because of trauma. They don’t need to be “lesbians” for that, as far as I know, hetero/bi women have the right not to fuck men as much as lesbians do.

But my annoyance is more than just what sexually abused political lesbians. My annoyance is that everyone non lesbian feel entitled to lesbianism despite the requirements for ‘lesbian’ being so simple. My annoyance is that, even in so called “lesbian spaces” I have to be thinking of who is actually lesbian and who is not because everyone else already went so far at turning ‘lesbian’ into political statement, hobby, fetish, moral choice, trauma cope, sexy attention magnet or whatever. It seems lesbianism is everything but female homosexuality. Lesbians are not only rare on “open world” they are also rare on “lesbian spaces”, that’s the annoying depressing thing. But of course, it’s too politically incorrect so you to ever say it out loud. See, another annoying thing, everyone is entitled to their opinion but lesbians have to think twice about what they say not to hurt transbias, not to hurt bisexuals, not to hurt men, not to hurt political lesbian.