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[–]begonia_skies 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

I am American and I have dated someone who is British, someone who was Russian and I now live in Germany and I have gone on dates with German women. What I will say is that cultural differences can be hard, and language barriers can really make those differences feel insurmountable. There were challenges in each relationship. I found the Russian woman I dated was very blunt, and that was really hard for me since it felt like she was criticizing me a lot, but she did not see any issue with using direct language.

I also have had a hard time dating German women, I'm not saying anything negative about Germans or Germany because there are wonderful things about Germany, but Germans can be rather cold and, again, are very direct. Germans like to say that a German friend is a friend for life and view American niceties as frivolous and fake. Germans tend to see themselves as more authentic in this regard, maybe, but having to "prove" yourself worthy of friendship (or just basic friendliness) is draining, esp when you are an expat. So, for me, I think I would prefer to date another American or someone from a culture more similar to mine, but of course, if I met the right person then that may change, lol.

And these are just my own personal experiences, I don't think they are representative of any country as a whole.

[–]blackrainbow 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Omg now I want a German girlfriend

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

A qualcuna piacciono le stronze lol

[–]blackrainbow 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Non è stronzaggine, è serietà! :)

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

La troppa serietà rompe i coglioni dopo un po'. A me piace la dolcezza, l'ironia, il tatto.

[–]blackrainbow 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Sono la prima a non avere tatto e ad essere mezza autistica, con una tedesca mi troverei bene. Anzi, mi son già trovata bene :)

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Ah, allora capisco. Io continuo a sognare una spagnola lol

[–]blackrainbow 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Già stata con una spagnola, ma anche lì dipende dalla regione, catalane e andaluse sono diverse. In genere però consiglio XD

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Beata te. Sono diverse, ma tutte hanno l'accento super hot. Fai conoscere l'italico ardore in giro per il mondo :D