Not every bi girl sleeps around but the girls who sleep around usually say they’re bi.

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[–]FrostyNugs 18 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 4 fun -  (41 children)

Okay but what does this have to do with lesbians?

[–]Innisfree 9 insightful - 9 fun9 insightful - 8 fun10 insightful - 9 fun -  (40 children)

It's presumably one lesbian's issue so we are all asked to join in solidarity and share this experiential wisdom. Apparently it is a truth so big, that nobody until OP had the courage to state it.

[–]FrostyNugs 14 insightful - 9 fun14 insightful - 8 fun15 insightful - 9 fun -  (38 children)

Nobody has had the courage to give this spicy take except OP and the girls who say this on every other post.

"Ladies it's 4pm, time for our daily thread bitching about bi chicks!!!!"

"I know this is a really controversial statement here but I finally got the courage to say I think bi chicks are just sluts who will end up jumping on every dick"

"OMG YOUR SO BRAVE YAS QUEEN SLAY"

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (19 children)

Loooooooooooooooooooool. It gets fucking OLD.

[–]FrostyNugs 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (18 children)

I swear this sub is just perpetually trapped in some kind of groundhog day where we see the same posts every day

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (16 children)

Yeah. It’s usually

-bisexual hatred -man hatred -heterosexual hatred -what’s your favourite colour? -oddly unrelatable lesbian post that seems off -unrequited love -some fun stuff

[–]FrostyNugs 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

Oh yes, my other favorites. But you forgot the -feminist post that has nothing to do with homosexuality-. I swear some people just think this sub is just a place for posts that didn't get enough upvotes on s/gendercritical.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Most feminism has to do with homosexuality in my eyes, but it’s probably because i know a shitload of lesbian feminists. That fucking one post tho about all the man-sex was uggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. I wish we could go one day without mansex as a fucking talking point

[–]FrostyNugs 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Personally I do not see feminism and homosexuality to be related at all, any more than being a feminist would be related to any other involuntary characteristic a woman could have. But yes the man-sex post was the post that came to my mind as I was writing that, lol. Like girl, what on earth do you expect us to relate to about this post?

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I think they naturally parallel each other. Or whatever the word is that means women who love women would be more likely to fight FOR women, and thereby get into women’s lib in some circles, which is feminist.

I think the only thing we all related to about all of that mansex mumbo jumbo was that we were barftastic over it. Like yeah nah

[–]yousaythosethings 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If that post weren't deleted, I'd send it to Dr. Ray Blanchard.

[–]Innisfree 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (10 children)

Nailed it! Looooooool. The brilliant thing is these topics trigger each other. It's the Gotterdamerung on s/ lesbians, the eternal struggle between the forces of depression and those of optimism.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

I get pretty bad depression once a month and it just makes it worse for me. Lol. Like, i think we can all agree not to date bi women if we don’t trust them. I have had some bad heartbreak with bi women, but a bi woman is also my best friend, so it’s sometimes a bit much to see non-stop posts about their evil sluttiness or whatever all the time. The ones who call themselves lesbians when they secretly know they like men can fuck ALLLLL the way off. And the women who are bi and call themselves “gay” non-stop can join the others on their way to fuck off.

But to just be shitting on bisexuals as a general group is gross.

I would like more fun posts to contribute to, to balance the others, but i am not in a fun mood, so meh. Lol

[–]FrostyNugs 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

100%. Bi girls who call themselves lesbians make life harder for homosexual women. But proud bi women who are just out there living their lives? I don't see why they deserve the hate they get on here. My good friend is a bi dude, so all of the bi hate and the man hate kinda weirds me out sometimes.

[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah, i have moments of frustration, but i have them at lesbians too, at anyone. The L G and B argue, that is the way of things. We are different. Most of us were used to it. I would like to date another lesbian, but I get just as extreme of crushes on bi women, and I would obviously pursue it. One thing that pisses me off is our spaces being invaded by women who should know better. But the wholesale hate is just disgusting

[–]peaked2020 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I also have close bi friends. I’m talking about a subgroup of bisexuals, not all of them. My bi friends don’t behave this way but they also notice this group.

[–]Innisfree 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Seconded on bi women and the rest. The gratuitous hate is the worst, the low effort mud slinging is tiring. Being a happier/more contended person is work, and that's why I appreciate the lighter side of this sub - that includes well placed sarcasm and irony. :)

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I think we should focus a lot less on hating bisexuals who are upfront about it and not ashamed. We should not really hate on anyone because it’s bad for us (each of us, our bodies, stress levels etc), but it happens. If there is anyone that earns my ire it’s liars, people who assume they will only date women and deny attraction to dudes. They are different than bi ppl who are just existing as themselves. Sometimes I think the rage is misplaced

[–]peaked2020 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I’m not shitting on them as a general group. I know not all of them are like this. It’s a group within bisexuals that I’m side eyeing. The ones that are unicorn hunters and use lesbians for attention

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I think that's just the nature of subs focused on sexuality. The ones on reddit are the same way, but worse.

[–]BonesReds 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Lol for real. I try to just ignore these posts but damn it's getting annoying.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

There should be a formal rule that any bi-hate thread must be accompanied by a horrifying DM the OP received from a bisexual and her progressive woke guy boyfriend.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Agreed. Or an actual story of an actual experience, not just random thoughts on bisexuals being evil sirens of sluttiness

[–]Seahorse 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

You forgot the "Where are all the femmezzz" or some shitting on butch women thread😂🤣

[–]FrostyNugs 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"Does anyone else think it's kind of annoying when people assume that following stereotypes about gender non-conformity makes someone "more of a lesbian?"

"REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE MODSSSSS"

[–]Innisfree 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

I'm with ya, mate. I've reported this a while ago, just op's post history and this clearly being a shit stirring post. But I guess mods be busy.

Also something tells me we've seen op before. Only can't put my finger on it, was it the inquisitor who wanted to burn the "fake lesbians" who had crushes on boys or was it someone else? Still naggingly familiar.

[–]Seahorse 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Oh god that was ridiculous.

Yes ladies, if you had a crush on Bieber at 11 you are not a PROPER lesbian😂🙄

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (5 children)

Loool, you mean the one who was sperging about how if you had a crush on a boy before puberty it means you’re a “bislut ”? That was fucking DREADFUL.

[–]yousaythosethings 6 insightful - 5 fun6 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

"So how did you figure out your sexual orientation?" Well, life is a pussy train but one time in elementary school I wanted to impress a boy with my sick math skills by getting better grades than him. He cried a lot and wanted his mom to pick him up. So I'm bisexual.

Anyway, I don't remember that user's name but she would mention all of the "suspicious" comments in that thread in like all of her posts. She had some screws loose for sure.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I see some highly fucking wack, suspicious “lesbian” content on here a lot, but it’s literally not worth commenting on if someone is not even stepping to me with it.

But to be calling children one sexual orientation or another based on whatever is gross and stupid and anyone who does that deserves a tongue lashing, and not the sexy kind.

[–]Innisfree 6 insightful - 4 fun6 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, the toddler sorter - this one is lesbian, this one is not. Brrrrrrr

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 4 fun5 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

I hear they can tell in utero now if you kick when they play k.d. Lang. If you only kick for ani difranco you are a dirty bi

[–]Innisfree 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

I'm dying 😂 while she is furiously taking notes!

[–]peaked2020 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Is that what’s going on? That other person wasn’t me, and I think their post sounds strange. I don’t hate bi women, I hate this subgroup of bi women that cheats and seeks attention.

[–]Innisfree 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

No, that is not what is going on. That's just us going off on a tangent.

Here's some geniune questions for you:

Do you like this forum? And if so why? Why do you want to participate in it?

[–]peaked2020 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm here because I'm tired of gender politics in regular lesbian spaces.

[–]peaked2020 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s not all of them. It’s a group within bisexuals. I thought I was clear on that but evidently many people didn’t realize it.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Someone has to take one for the team and state the Hard Truths. Lol

[–]lmaonope333 11 insightful - 11 fun11 insightful - 10 fun12 insightful - 11 fun -  (3 children)

ok I had this bi friend who told me she wanted to hire a hooker to teach her how to have sex cuz she was embarrassed that she was inexperienced. lol

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Awwwwwww :(

That’s kind of sad. Women are usually cool with women who are not experienced. We don’t tend to treat other women like they should be sex pros, at least not in my experience

[–]lmaonope333 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

yeah that's what I told her. but shes pretty insecure, the overachiever type, valedictorian etc so I guess this is how it manifested in her sexual life

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

I wonder if she would orate about it afterward, loool

[–]whateverman 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Your account is only a few days old and almost exclusively focused on bi girls. You seem pretty fixated on them.

[–]yousaythosethings 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So Jethro is either a trojan horse or is just very aggressively pursuing a personal agenda. But we apparently can't ask her about her experiences either so I guess she doesn't want a discussion.

[–][deleted] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is shitty.

[–]literallyjustvibing 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

what i love about this post is how it has nothing at all to do with lesbians. great job op!!

(sarcasm obviously)

[–]babystud 4 insightful - 7 fun4 insightful - 6 fun5 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Thank u for your bravery

[–]yousaythosethings 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don’t know what you mean by sleep around? Are you saying lesbians aren’t into casual sex whereas bi women are? Or are you talking about cheating?

[–]peaked2020 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

There’s a difference between liking casual sex and being a hoe. Lots of the hoes say they’re bi. Those do cheat.

[–]yousaythosethings 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I wish I had it in me to be a hoe. Like lacking strong feelings of shame and guilt. I exist more in the frustrating awkward in-between state of probably don’t have the time and settledness for a relationship now and would really like a casual FWB situation except I know those situations never work out, I want to be respectful, and I would probably feel really shitty about it.

[–]peaked2020 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

When I say hoe I’m talking about girls who love group sex, advertise their kink, cheating, want so much attention from everybody... hopefully you don’t want to be like that. You can sleep around without being one of those. I hope you can relax with it one day.

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    [–][deleted] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Maybe! But I don’t even think they are more promiscuous at all. That is one the the stereotypes i think is actually bullshit. I think there are some people with certain mental health issues that get hypersexual with people, but i don’t think that is representative of bisexuals as a group.

    (But i am not counting straight couples as “bisexual”)

    [–]peaked2020 3 insightful - 6 fun3 insightful - 5 fun4 insightful - 6 fun -  (7 children)

    Well the hoe bis seem to love being sexualized because they sleep with lots of people and want everyone to know how sexy they are. They love the group sex, kink, only fans...

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      [–]peaked2020 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

      I DO stay away from them. I made a two sentence post about them because I noticed a trend. I said girls who say they’re bi because who knows. I know about the spectrum.

      [–]yousaythosethings 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

      Have you recently had a bad run-in with some bi women? What happened?

      [–]peaked2020 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

      Can you read? I noticed a trend. I posted two sentences about it. Then you freaked because apparently that means I had some secret trauma by a bi woman. Straight dudes notice them doing the same crap. Chill.

      [–]yousaythosethings 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

      Woah, hold on there Jethro. THIS:

      Can you read? I noticed a trend. I posted two sentences about it. Then you freaked because apparently that means I had some secret trauma by a bi woman. Straight dudes notice them doing the same crap. Chill.

      is a gross mischaracterization of THIS:

      Have you recently had a bad run-in with some bi women? What happened?

      [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 6 fun4 insightful - 5 fun5 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

      “Hold on there Jethro” loool

      [–][deleted] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

      Dude. Cool your jets. This is just rude. Lol. Wth.

      [–]Seahorse 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

      Look bisexual chicks shit me as much as the next lesbian but this isn't true.

      Lesbians aren't exactly great at keeping it in their pants either.