[spoilers] Below Her Mouth (2016) — Film of The Week

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[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

You said yourself that it takes "other stuff" which is why I asked how you would know if it was simply the anal that's pleasurable or the other stuff. I wasn't denying that the anal could intensify things. I was not even talking about you, I was talking about women and anal sex. I thought our convo was a spin-off from the convo I had with SailorMoon2020. She mentioned women who could orgasm from anal sex alone which is why I was talking about psychology. I don't know why you are so against the fact that there's a huge psychological aspect to sexual pleasure. Psychological doesn't mean fake nor does it mean that the feelings were not being felt throughout the body.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

So if I give to much info here, I’m sorry.

All I know is every so often I’m down for some light anal. There has been times that I’ve gotten off from it alone. It’s a totally different type of orgasm then you have from other types of sex. It’s not that sharp and fast peaking traditional type, it builds more slowly but when it happens brace yourself. It tends last a little longer in my opinion, kind of like the tortoise vs hare situation in my experience. I can say with 100% certainty that it’s not psychological and purely physical when I’ve gotten there from it.

Not saying it’s for everyone. I know women who are into fisting, not something I like to give or get, but whatever works for them.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Yeah my point was not that women can't get pleasure from anal sex, and I even agreed earlier with SailorMoon2020 that there are women who can get off from anal alone so I definitely was not doubting that. I don't see the problem with pointing out that there's a psychological aspect to sexual pleasure. I thought everybody knew and agreed on that. I mean, there's people who can get off simply by giving oral, there's people who get off from bizarre kinks that don't even have anything to do with the act of sex - they are still feeling real pleasure. Psychological doesn't mean that the physical pleasure you felt was fake. If it feels good then do it

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I’m a judgment free zone over here. Everyone sees sex differently, and that should be respected. I spent most of my time trying to keep the psychological aspect out of it and simply went for physical pleasure 95% of the time. It gave me a different mindset about things then a lot of the lesbians I know. Some women need the psychological side to make it work, I just don’t happen to be one of them. Either way it’s ok.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

my conclusive point is literally: women don't have prostates to stimulate during anal sex and sexual pleasure is not separate from the mind. That's basic biology 101

I mean damn wtf? 😆 I don't even know how I got here. By psychological I don't mean emotional as in needing emotional connections for sex to be pleasurable but I won't go down that lane now.

Everyone sees sex differently, and that should be respected.

Yeah I guess. But there are scientific facts regardless of how someone sees something... still its whatever.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Because the internet can be a rabbit hole, that’s how it ended up here

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

It's possible to stimulate the clit from behind, so that's could explain it. But the anus itself isn't a sexual organ,. and cannot really give orgasms. There are nerves even around the mouth, but it isn't normal thing to expect someone to get off by giving oral. Even getting off by stimulating the vagina internally is very hard, let alone using part not meant for that purpose lol

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I am well aware of the benefits of a reach around. Most of the time anal is just an added bonus to what’s already happening. But the times I did get off from it alone had me thinking that woman was a magician because it hadn’t happened before.

[–]florasis 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The thought of having anything in there makes me cringe, but ok :D

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It’s not for everyone.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What I am against is you making black and white statements about what you “think” is the source, or nature, of a specific type of pleasure; one that you’ve not experienced and do not intend to experience.

Keep your eye on the ball, I do.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So far you haven't been able to name the part near/of a woman's anal canal or rectum that gives women sexual pleasure so I guess we are done here 🤷