Hey, I'm so happy I finally joined this forum. I used to subscribe to the old one on R/eddit, and I was really upset when it got destroyed. I felt really lonely!
Recently, I decided to try online dating for the first time, and I just want to ask: how do you navigate these apps? I know we're all different, but I saw some recent online dating posts (one about red flags, one about bios), and I thought we could have a broader discussion.
Personally, I am not into hooking up so I downloaded the least Tinder-like app out there. Most people on the app want something serious too, but so far haven't met anyone I like. I don't really have an approach. I just stick to being honest about and with myself. Not 'liking' women with political beliefs I don't share, not 'liking' anyone whose long-term plans are totally different from mine. But I'm also trying to not be overly picky in terms of hobbies and tastes (TV shows, movies) because I'm trying to find a partner, not a clone.
Those who do online date, (more and more of us it seems, because of Covid) - what are some other tips and advice and thoughts? What is your personality type, and do you find it makes online dating harder or easier? Is ghosting someone ever okay? What do you prefer: meeting up right away to see if there's chemistry, or talking for ages? Do people manage to find people with whom they click or is it all a myth, and everyone just deletes their apps after a month and redownloads them six months later, rinse and repeat until death?
You don't have to answer all or any of this. They are just some starting points!
Edit: Grammar.
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