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[–]florasis 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

You italoamericans are really proud of your italian roots, even though you really know very little about Italy, having lived all your life among the americans. Well, you're italian in the blood. And for italian, blood is thicker than water.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Well I’d hope you wouldn’t generalize us quite like that. Not all of us know “very little” about Italy. My family has been to Italy many times, I just sadly was too young to come with.

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

No, sorry, I didn't want to generalize. It just that I've seen multiple occasion of people really not speaking italian at all, yet proudly calling themselves italians. I mean, nothing wrong. Living all your life in the other part of the world, it is normal you only speak english and are more american than italian, at least culturally.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

See here-in lies something that irks me to no end is that somehow I am less Italian in culture or heritage because I am American and may not speak the language, at least in the eyes of an Italian born in Italy. What does it matter that I was born an American? Yes I do speak English and not Italian but the fact that I wish to learn more and speak it more isn’t enough apparently. I was raised with the traditions of the southern Italians, the feast of the seven fishes, the teachings of the feast of the epiphany, the whole nine yards minus maybe the smaller Italian holidays that are reserved for different saints and festivals, but the fact that still yet, another Italian would still say to me “you are not Italian” feels as if they wish to strip me of my ancestry just because my passport and citizenship is not Italian.

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Please, don't get offended. Of course you're italian, it just different than being an italian born and raised in Italy. Also, we italians are not like americans. We are very strict about who we consider italian. In USA you just get the citizenship and you are american. In Italy, you are born and raised here, but you won't be considered really italian if your parents are from abroad. It is what it is.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I could very easily get citizenship in Italy if I truly wanted to cause I have living blood born and raised there, but the fact of stating the previous is more of an assumption than not simply because I am an American. I don’t cling to that identity. I’m Italian first and American second.

[–]florasis 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I would get citizenship if I were you. You know, public healthcare for when you older and access to the entire european union. Quite convenient.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I feel like my path is not to be living in Italy in my old age. Yes I could get citizenship for the benefits, but I’d visit more than likely instead of staying til I’m gray.

[–]florasis 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Quality of life in Italy, and generally Europe, is way better than USA, especially for old people.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh I didn’t mention that my path is not in the US either. I’m not debating that, anything is better than the US.