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I think many gay men have been brainwashed by traditional gender ideology where you need to be masculine to be considered a man. It's the same shit my parents and grandparents repeated over and over.

In order to leave that homophobic hole and live my own life I had to understand what homosexuality really is. After a lot of introspection I understood my sexuality is first and foremost same sex attraction, and masculinity and femininity are just preferences. It's ok to prefer a certain aesthetic, personality or body type but that's not the most important thing.

Many gay guys never did this mental work and they are still trapped in a web of gender bullshit.