ColonizationTiM's straight girlfriend doesn't know how to treat him like a woman in bed

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[–]spanishprofanity 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (6 children)

cis woman also a bottom

what

[–]Femaleisnthateful 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Do actual lesbians (what he's claiming to be) use language like 'top' and 'bottom'? I feel like they don't.

[–]SerpensInferna 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

We used to not, that used to be the reserve of gay men, but with the 'queering' of the community I have heard young lesbians use those terms frequently these days. I'm in my 40s, and no one in my age group or above uses those terms for lesbians.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have heard young lesbians use those terms frequently these days.

They're just parroting things they heard from other people in order to sound cool to their peers, nothing more.

[–]RedJackalRampant homosexual[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Sometimes, but like SerpensInferna said, it's become more popular in recent years. Most lesbians are switches. In some countries, like Japan, the top/bottom dichotomy is more important to lesbians.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm operating under the assumption that the terms are similar in meaning, so a "top" lesbian wouldn't be into being penetrated at all? I always wondered about that sort of dichotomy with lesbians.

[–]RedJackalRampant homosexual[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A top lesbian could be comfortable with being on the receiving end. What you're thinking of is a stone butch. They don't like to be touched at all during sex, and it's rare. I haven't come across one myself. A pillow princess is kind of the opposite, which is a bottom who doesn't care to do any work to pleasure their partner.