Indoctrination / DoublethinkQueer Imposter Syndrome (QIS) is a thing

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[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

Having bizarre sex doesn't make you more queer.

It's important to remember that "gay" and "queer" are not the same thing in this context.

The word "queer" is used as an umbrella term for a series of behaviors which break social standards and the notion of "normalcy" in general.

In this sense, a gay person can be "not queer" and a straight person can in theory be "queer".

[–]SwampOphelia 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yep. It’s now “queer” to not sleep with someone unless one has an emotional attachment to the other person (aka “demisexual”). A huge number of heterosexual people fall under this qualification, therefore, they’re “queer”.

You can’t make this stuff up. A huge number of heterosexual people qualify as “queer” just for preferring monogamy.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

There was a post in asexual forum asking if any other demisexual also develops sexual attraction quickly like them.

Words have no meaning.

[–]RedJackalRampant homosexual[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I met a girl like this on an LGBTQ dating app. She came out to me... as straight. Gray-ace and demisexual. Nice girl, but wish the straights would stop invading our spaces.

[–]RedJackalRampant homosexual[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Only if you give them the ground to take the term "queer" from us. It used to be confined only to gay people, and perhaps transsexuals, but now it means all manner of left-wing heterosexual. Which is unfortunate. I hope we reclaim the word one day.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I do not, to be honest.

I hope they bring this word to the ground, where it belongs.

I have a very clear position on this whole "appropriating slurs" thing, which is a good and clear "no".

The first problem with this word is that it's so vague in meaning that it could theoretically be applied to anything "subversive", which is unhelpful at best and counterintuitive at worst.

Also, I personally thing that the first step in showing respect for oneself is to reject terms made to degrade and diminish oneself.

This might be a little radical, but eh... I believe it's appropriate.