How much of the TQMAP+ community's outward expression can be explained by the DSM-IV definitions of cluster-B axis personality disorders? Is it a public demonstration of a failure of mental health intervention? One of the big red flags of emotional immaturity is the inability to be told "no." Most people adjust their unwanted tactics to reach their goals, or re-evaluate their goals in relation to others, when told no, while disordered people can have breakdowns, undermining themselves.