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[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

If a man calls himself gay, I'm not gonna disbelieve him.

I am. I got into an argument with a gay guy insisting he was gay. He identified as gay. But he loved vagina, occasionally. I tried to say that would make you not a homosexual but bisexual but he wasn't buying it.

But to be bisexual and never seek an opposite sex partner, does that make sense?

I can't answer that as I am not bi, but my understanding is that they sometimes date only one sex for awhile then switch...but I don't think this is that. Bisexual is a the spectrum part of human sexuality, so someone could be all the way on the gay side of it but not be a homosexual.

But my sexuality was very clear for me so I don't get these guys who decide secondary sex characteristics are good enough.