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[–]MBMayfair 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Wow. Does she have any friends left?

[–]Virginia_Plain 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I cut contact years ago. She was always unstable, but way too difficult to deal with. I was a very trans supportive person when she came out, so my naive thought was "OK! So that's what was holding her--I mean HIM--back!" No. The sadness, anger, and turmoil just became even more destructive. I think she finally did feel empowered, in part because the hormones, and in part because she finally felt she was part of something people would have to pay attention to: the "Queer Community."