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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Ugh I’m sorry you lost a meaningful connection to the lesbian community. Whenever I see obvious male commentary below lesbian/wlw content it squicks me out and makes me feel so violated, and then angry that we’re basically prohibited from defending our ground. There have been times I’ve thought about putting my own content out there and the idea that it would likely attract creepy colonizers who want to wear our skin has been a major deterrent.

Also curious about who the YouTuber is and to read her explanation post. I hope she’s OK and weathers the storm, and eventually finds a safer home for her content.

I have reached the conclusion that the only way for lesbians to have anything is for it to be underground, accessible only through heavy vetting, and with significant deterrents in place to keep colonizers away.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The Youtuber is Bexx ASMR

There have been times I’ve thought about putting my own content out there and the idea that it would likely attract creepy colonizers who want to wear our skin has been a major deterrent.

Yeah same here to be honest.

I hope she’s OK and weathers the storm, and eventually finds a safer home for her content.

I also hope she'll be ok, but based on her post and other comments it seems unlikely she'll ever reupload any of her lesbian-centric stuff anywhere online, unfortunately.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Goddamnit. I had a feeling it was ASMR. I have searched for ASMR produced by lesbians geared toward other lesbians but I could never find anything beyond the wall of porn for men and creepy anime for fetishists stuff.

What a bummer.