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[–]MoutonelectriqueBland Straight ♀ 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

What the actual fuck?

I have had occasional conversations about this in groups where I am out--where if you would call a cis man queen, girl, or sis, and you would avoid those terms markedly only on the basis that I am trans... that would be more indicative of you not truly seeing me as a man.

Newsflash sugar Dudebroking: we don't see you as a man. And this is 5D chess walking on eggshells.

Do trust me on this: people will grow tired of this, you will alienate people. Not because you are uwu-trans and not because you are straight/gay/bi, but because you always whine and bitch. You always find a reason to whine and bitch. You are always looking for the next reason to whine and bitch. It is never good enough. Take it from me: take care of yourself mentally because the longer you are on this negativity spree, the harder it gets to in the end enjoy anything at all.

[–]INeedSomeTimeAsexual Ally 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True. I don't avoid people for being trans. I won't avoid a decent, chill trans person I feel comfortable with. But when I see someone waving their "they/he" pronoun with "demiboy" description then I expect an annoying person I don't wanna even get to know close expecting to constantly walk on eggshells with them. A lot of these people will blame their transness for people avoiding them but they fail to realize it's actually their insufferable entitled behavior.