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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/SocialJusticeInAction/ is similar to TiA but a wee bit more anti-gay. That doesn't particularly bother me, and I think the more that sane LGB voices make themselves evident, the more anti-gay people will soften their position. You don't win people over by insisting on ideological purity, instead you emphasize common ground.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

they've gotten alot worse this pride season over the drag queen story hours and bar events. Its harder to speak out there.

So tired of hearing gay marriage >> slippery slope >> choppin' up kids

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I understand their anger. Drag queen story hour shouldn't be a thing, and kids shouldn't be in gay bars with neon signs flashing sexual innuendo.

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately that has also been my experience on there. I suppose one way to change it would be by participating there, though.

[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don't know of any, unfortunately.

It seems like the only places you can have an honest conversation these days are the ones that are mostly unmoderated. Which means you're gonna have to deal with getting called slurs by extremists, if you want to participate.

Saidit is the most neutral forum I've been able to find.

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Hey, does anyone know whose account this was? Curious especially now that we're a private sub.

u/IridescentAnaconda and u/xandit -- did you happen to notice?

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm sorry, I do not remember.

[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

No problem! I think I figured out who it was.