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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fascinated by the Depp / Heard trial for all the people who can't see that she's a Cluster B poster child. But then, none of us got sent to school to learn that in advance.

But it's a relief to see a bona fide abuser with at least two Cluster B diagnoses being scrutinized for the usual abuse, gaslighting, smear campaigns, etc.

It's clear that she's guilty. He might or might not be some sort of train wreck himself (mostly he appears to be dumb about sharing his moments of dark humor as inspired by dealing with a Cluster B person who is trashing one's life), but she's definitely the real thing. That's been obvious for years.

If she gets some real comeuppance here it'll be pretty amazing. She could be a twin of the woman I dated who had (diagnosed but not disclosed) BPD. They're so similar it's eerie.

[–]ElectraHeart 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I started a substack, but I'm only reading articles for my posts right now. Also a question: why does this sub use the toothpaste flag for gay men? There are like a dozen better ones. I find it weird that lesbians have the labyrs flag while gays have the tumblr toothpaste flag made in 2019.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

If you would like an extra flair for gay men, you're welcome to suggest it. Us mods will discuss and figure out if it should be implemented after other users give input too.

[–]ElectraHeart 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I do not want an extra flair, i just want to see the toothpaste flag gone. Its a tumblr invention and even its very existence is a testament to gender cult colonisation. If you don't want to use the rainbow flag for gay men, just use the Baker's 8 striped one with the extra colors for sex and magic. But the way it exists right now, feels hypocritical since only the gender cult uses the toothpaste flag for gay men anyways.

Toothpaste flag is known as the Vincian flag.

Vincian is one of multiple terms used to describe gay attraction to men, man-aligned or masculine-aligned individuals. Multiple definitions also include non-binary individuals who are not miaspec, such as individuals who experience neutral or even feminine-aligned genders.

It does not belong here.

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Baker's 8 striped

Can you link me an image, and I'll make a mod post so users can all pitch in and decide? The discussion could get easily lost or overlooked here.

The flag flair that exists currently was approved by our gay men when the sub was originally created. Granted, there were far less users back then, so maybe more would like an update now. For quick reference: https://imgur.com/a/WMt4Pmf

[–]ElectraHeart 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Here's a link to the original pride flag from 1978: https://i.imgur.com/RFdStLR.png

The flag flair that exists currently was approved by our gay men when the sub was originally created. Granted, there were far less users back then, so maybe more would like an update now. For quick reference: https://imgur.com/a/WMt4Pmf

I doubt many men spent their times on tumblr, much less have any knowledge of the flag discourse going back to 2017-9. So this link can be great for context:

https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Vincian https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:New_Gay_Pride_Flag.svg

This flag is inclusive of all gay men. This includes Aro, Questioning/Unsure, NB, Ace, & Gay men that are Gender Non Conforming, be you Masc, Fem, or Androgynous in any way! Same goes for gay men of any religious background," from gaymansflag

As I said, please be sure to check out the context behind this flag before making the post, as i'm pretty sure no one would actually want a blatant piece of gendie colonisation representing the sub. Thank you for listening!

Also on a very unrelated note: when am i going to get approved? i couldn't find any info on what constitutes as a 'new account'.