LesbianTW: lesbian assault survivor tricked into bed by biological man, upsetting comments blaming OP

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[–]chandra 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Theres no problem having a genital preference, if you dont like a penis then you dont like a penis.

However you were extremely bioessential about it, to the point I wonder if you straight up called her a man. Its definitely implied by the way you said it. (Especially with telling us the bit about your past trauma with men. Because while its awful and my heart goes out to you that you went through that, nothing about that experience ties in to this one, nothing about this woman ties her to men at all, which makes me raise my eyebrows about why you brought it up)

I hate how they play these dumb word games. 'You were assaulted by a man with his penis? I can't possibly imagine how you draw a connection between that experience and this one, because this person with a penis was a total 100% woman with no possible connection to men whatsoever.'

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, and, come to think of it... what if the penis she'd been assaulted with, and traumatized by, belonged to... a "transwoman"? How can subscribers to gender-woo possibly know whether that even WAS a man? Wouldn't that qualify as the dreaded "assuming someone's gender"? In which case, by this dumbass's own rules, EVERYTHING about that experience would tie it to this one, wouldn't it? What with them both being about unwanted and unwelcome "girldick"?

Why, it's almost as though dick = man, and "gender identity" doesn't actually matter at all!

[–]greatcicadiatthrow 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

the person i was assaulted by did identify as mtf.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm so sad to hear that you were assaulted by anybody. I hope that you're doing OK now. 🫂

But yeah, I think that "transwomen" genuinely do have a penchant for preying on women-- which, given that their "gender identity" is based on seeing us as living sex toys and eroticizing our oppression, is less than surprising. In fact, I've read that the percentage of men-claiming-to-be-women jailed for sex crimes is far higher than what you find among non-trans-identified men: something like 40% vs 11%. When you not only have seriously-creepy fetishes, but also make them the center of your life? To the point of demanding that the entire world participate in them? Just a matter of time till you assault someone, I think. That mind-set primes you for it... and now, you also have an entire rah-rah-trans movement cheering you on :(