r/askgaybros - A woman doesn't like it when gay men refuse to see her as a man so she keeps threatening to kill herself.

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[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Let me throw in a little - sorry HUGE - guilt trip here:

I was suicidal before I came here. And I rarely bring it up in person, because guys ghost me the moment their sex doll shows emotion. It's not an empty threat, I just need a gun. Mean is also not the same is holding me accountable for my actions. They didn't say that they didn't like what I did and that they need me to stop, they didn't break up with me, they either accused me of being homophobic for saying hello or repeatedly reminded me of what I hate about myself. Suicide hotlines read from a script that I've memorized, and a therapist won't give me a hug, which is what I actually need. I can't stop using social media because then I will have no one to talk to or any way to distract myself from my thoughts. I've been depressed for so long that I have no personality, no interests, and therefore no way to make friends other than fwbs who manipulate me. Edit: and I need a gun because I've already ruled out all other methods

Get OFF the fucking internet kiddo and get yourself a psych. You're not a man. You're a very mentally ill woman with a severe victim complex.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Everything about this reads as prototypical borderline personality disorder. She doesn’t want to get help and face the reality of her problems. Being a victim is at the core of her identity and gives her power over others.

[–]CancelPowerSuper Bi Male[S] 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What I found funny the most was when that guy told her "Ok I'm gonna do it with you, I'm still gonna see you a woman though because that's what you are" then she said "No. You are GAY! I'm a MAN!" "No I'm not gay, you are a woman" "Give me a gun, you either see me as a man or I'm gonna kill myself"

Guilt-tripping and manipulation at its finest. I usually feel deep sympathy for suicidal people with mental disorders but nah, this one just comes off as a complete trans attention seeker. You don't go to a place that you know is not for you then you force them to follow your gender gospel.

EDIT: Yikes. Her post history is full of stuff like this, telling random people on r/askgaybros to kill her whenever the transgender topic comes up, I lost what's left of any sympathy for her at the moment tbh. She gotta learn that she isn't special, people aren't gonna cater to her needs and demands.

EDIT2: Wow. Not just r/askgaybros, she is everywhere, she's completely insane. Her question about Jeffrey was straight up strange.