ColonizationIf only there were a solution to this hopeless situation

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[–]Q-Continuum-kin 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

I think that what he said (he said she broke his heart by being a ftm supposedly) is pretty shit because it's making your existence about HIM.

Not even true because he is validating the trans identity by deciding not to date you when you haven't done anything but "identify" as a man... Meanwhile you make his entire sexuality about YOU and want him to call himself gay because you insist on being labeled as a "femboy".

[–]HelloMomo 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

The whole "existence" thing is so weird. It's a word they reach for so often. Everything is a threat to their very existence!

Like... even with their logic, how is this "making your existence about HIM"? He never so much as asked her not to transition. He literally just had his own feelings about it.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 19 insightful - 1 fun19 insightful - 0 fun20 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also he never intended to make the person feel a certain way. He confided in a 3rd person who went and told.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

That's the problem with narcissists. They don't allow you to have your own feelings. If it's not 100% consistent with what they have in their head you are disrespecting them or you are the enemy.

[–]Mikulbleu 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just try and educate everyone who will listen on the patterns of narcissism, show them therapist videos on youtube and hope they can connect the dots themselves. I have a lot of “embies” at my job, and they’re kinda all insufferable, lazy twats to be around, so I’m hoping that people realize that people who go out of their way to inconvenience others are most likely narcissists

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 4 insightful - 4 fun4 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

OH DEAR GOD THEY'RE ERASING OUR EXIS...

[–]opinioncloset 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

maybe, just maaaybe, he's heartbroken because a woman he cares deeply for wants to cut her perfectly-healthy tits off?

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 15 insightful - 7 fun15 insightful - 6 fun16 insightful - 7 fun -  (2 children)

Oh my god. The stupidity. It burns.

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Selfawarewolves could have a field day with this post if it weren't for AHS.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are ultra performatively woke on trans stuff. I made a completely benign comment which slightly went against the trans narrative and got Perma banned so fast.

[–]Socialjustus 10 insightful - 7 fun10 insightful - 6 fun11 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

It's times like this I hate being trans and would rather just be a cis woman.

Guess what?

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So one finally found a guy that is stupid enough to love them and they rather continue larping as a gay man? Poor guy dodged a cannonball he just doesn't know it yet.

[–]jjdub7TERF (Trans Exterminating Reactionary Fascist) 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Geez, these replies are all really cringe and sad, and there just seems to be a warped kind of crab bucket mentality going on, wherein the "affirmation" of OP's manhood (read: do not break character) is tacitly understood to be of greater importance than possibly rationalizing as a group that this gal might actually be exactly what her crush is looking for.