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[–]Mikulbleu 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I’m super drawn into female friendships and I get like a “friend crush” on girls, but I’m only physically attracted to men and I also enjoy male/male friendships too. Idk its like different conversation topics based on who I’m with, I don’t know why people need to label everything while demanding not to be labeled

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I don’t know why people need to label everything while demanding not to be labeled

Two different things.

When we're inexperienced and don't know a lot about life or other people, we label ourselves and others to make things easier once we get past small talk. Oh you're X and I'm Y, then we do or don't mesh in life. We can always be friendly otherwise, thank you and have a nice day.

When we gain more life experience and start learning about who we truly are inside, we demand not to be labelled by others and state our boundaries. Our truth is our truth, and no one gets to say otherwise. I SAID GOOD DAY, SIR!

As we age - we either settle into one of those for good, or we sit in the middle and look at individual issues on their own and scratch our heads about the extremes.

I personally think people, and especially youth, are being targeted with propaganda, and this extreme duality is being deliberately farmed for nefarious purposes. But that's a conspiracy theory that reaches beyond our sub.