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[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If you like someone's hobbies, interests, etc. and not their genitals, that's what's called being in a platonic relationship with them. You don't need to bang everyone just to not be an ass to them. But if you're entering a relationship that is potentially sexual, then you really do need to be sexually compatible. And the only time I've ever prioritized someone's junk over the other aspects of them is for a hookup or one night stand, where I actually am seeing a lot more of their genitals than their hobbies, interests, or anything else about them.