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[–]shveya 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I've heard of people hiding the fact that they were obese on dating apps and thinking they could sweep their match off their feet with their stunning personality when they meet irl. A lot of hetero trans-identified people simply don't understand human sexuality, so they're likely thinking like this.

[–]ShotTopic 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

As someone overweight (but working on myself - so far down 45 pounds!) that's so ridiculous. I know what I look like, I don't want to trick people. That just wastes everone's time and makes the rejection even more painful.

[–]shveya 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Congrats on the weight loss!

[–]ShotTopic 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thanks!!