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[–]ArthnoldManacatsaman🇬🇧🌳🟦 30 insightful - 1 fun30 insightful - 0 fun31 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I can't understand this idea of pity sex.

Perhaps I'm just a stone-cold monster but I'm not going to sleep with anyone to make them feel better. I'll buy you a coffee or take you out for dinner so we can chat and you're not wallowing in the house all the time, sure, because I'm your friend, but I'm not going to sleep with you. Who does that? What a terrible idea.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've hooked up with someone i wasn't attracted to before but it took me a bit to get off and i stopped giving him attention after that. I felt bad like perhaps I led him on and he spent a decent amount of time to come visit. There was no penetration or anything though. It wasn't a big deal to me.