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[–]hufflepuff-poet 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I never thought about that, so true, like does this one man she's with rn cancel out her entire past sexual/dating history and who she's actually attracted to?! I'm sure she's still attracted to male actors and celebs not female ones.

Sometimes I feel bad for straight women, it seems so hard to untangle straight female sexuality from the imposed straight male ideal of female sexuality and we wind up in situations like this with women letting their sexual orientation be dictated by their partner's identity rather than her own attraction and history.