Men's IssuesThe Fetishization of Gay Men (Our Stories)

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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

This wasn’t easy to read. I felt bad for the man in the article, this never should have happened to him. I’m glad those who were initially unsympathetic towards him have become more supportive of him.

We hear it a lot from ignorant people that "men can never get raped". Or that a man is "gay" if he didn’t want to have sex with a woman. Which leaves me to ask, what would these same people say to a gay man who was raped by a woman? Do they acknowledge that he was raped, or do they dismiss him?

[–]DimDroog 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

I don't know the answer to your last question, and I would hope people would support him.

I find rape/sexual assault/violence disturbing NO MATTER WHO DOES IT.

I know a straight man who was sexually assaulted when he was passed out.

He literally got sick, and was afraid to report it.

The woman who assaulted works at a male prison too.

Men MUST speak up when a "hot" female teacher is caught with a younger male student!

It's NOT hot, he isn't lucky, he was violated, and HE CAN be on the hook for child support!

I cannot tell you how many times I used to argue with men in the comments section when a pretty female teacher was arrested.

All I got back was how hot she was, and how lucky he was,and "oh how they wished" she'd been there when they were young.

It's nasty.

Men have got to speak up, even when facing pushback from other men and women.

I don't even like to touch family and friends without permission, it boggles my mind that someone can do this to another.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Sorry to hear about your straight friend.

Yes, I hate it when idiot male cumbrains talk about how hot a female teacher is after she has defiled a male student. Just because a boy has gone through puberty and is physically ready for sex doesn’t mean he is emotionally ready, and he still hasn’t comprehended the consequences of sex. What would the reactions of these cumbrains be if a teenage boy had sex with a male teacher? These cumbrains would be outraged. So would I, I would also want that teacher imprisoned for at least 5 years (20 years if the child is under 14 and forever if the child is under 10) and barred from teaching for life. But guess what? I’ve found some of my male teachers attractive when I was a teenager. I’m sure these cumbrains wouldn’t like it if female cumbrains defended hot male teachers who have sex with their female 15-year-old students, right?

We need to start shaming people who defend teachers who molesters their students. Call these people cumbrains and coomers. Cops who defend these teachers should be fired. Judges who give these teachers should be disbarred. Those teachers should go to prison for 5 years to life imprisonment depending on the age of the student. If a female teacher gets pregnant from defiling a male student and does not have an abortion, the parents of the male student should get sole custody of the child until the male student turns 18 and then he can raise the child or put the child up for adoption.

[–]our_team_is_winning 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Just because a boy has gone through puberty and is physically ready for sex doesn’t mean he is emotionally ready, and he still hasn’t comprehended the consequences of sex.

Many 13 and 14 year olds are sexually active with their classmates. In other cultures, girls that age are married off, and those cultures are becoming more commonly seen in the West. Boys that age are watching hardcore porn. Not saying any of this should be happening, but it is. And that affects the way society views these issues.

I think fewer people see 13, 14 as children these days. Not saying it's right! But when the 14 year old "kids" are exchanging naked photos on their phones, it's hard to see them as "just kids."

Even 18 seems like an arbitrary age for official adulthood (in Japan it's 20) because the human brain isn't fully developed until 25. In the US, we have Democrats trying to lower the voting age to 16.

The topics of "who is an adult?" "what is rape?" and "men can be raped too" all need more attention. This Pornsick World seems to have people all confused.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Teenagers are definitely gonna fuck. But they should only be allowed to have sex with each other. The age of consent laws should protect them predatory adults. In my opinion, the general age of consent should be 17. If the older person is less than five years older than the younger person, then the age of consent should be 15. And if the age gap between them is less than two years, then the age of consent should be 12. The marriageable age should be 18 with no exceptions. If a teenage boy and a teenage girl have a child, they should still wait until they are 18 before they can marry.

Pornography is certainly a problem, especially for teenagers. There should be a default filter that blocks access to porn sites that is turned off only by presenting your ID to the ISP.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, in middle school we were already talking about sex, and in middle school we were watching porn. This american idea to see 14 years old as innocent kids is quite dumb. Of course it isn't acceptable for them to have sexual relationships with adults, but most of them aren't really innocent kids

[–]usehername 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They are just kids. Kids being overly sexual. That's why it's so disturbing.