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[–]AugustiJade 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I had an "ultra-woke" colleague, who would ask me really homophobic questions like, "usually in a lesbian relationship, there's one woman who is the 'top' in the relationship, right? So why don't you just date men?"

This white dude was a die-hard TRA and a big BLM supporter, but he said crap like that all the bloody time.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Okay literally I have heard so many straight people IRL, as well as a couple of LGB-identified people, talk about how there is a "top and bottom" in a lesbian relationship. Like, wtf. 1) this isn't a gay male relationship 2) not everyone is into BDSM 3) If neither of those other two explanations are what you mean by "top and bottom," then you are basically just asking me: "Who 'wears the pants' in the relationship?" Liberal homophobia in action.

This white dude was a die-hard TRA and a big BLM supporter, but he said crap like that all the bloody time.

Yep, same for the people I knew! "TWAW, BLM," and then say shit like this.