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[–][deleted] 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I recognize that some people have preferences, but she should have communicated that with you

How? How are we supposed to communicate that when these assholes took away all the words we would use to do that? Normally we'd just say lesbian or homosexual and that should be good to communicate the lack of interest in dick, but these fuckfaces intentionally confuse those terms so that communication is lost.

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also, why is it on the majority to communicate to the minority? Let's pretend for a moment that every single trans person completely passes and you really can't tell until you get them naked (which, I mean come on). So, if I go on a date with a guy, I don't know if he's a biological male or if he's a trans man and have no way to tell until we're in bed. Let's say I go out with ten guys. One of them (and even this is a ridiculously high chance) will be trans.

So I have to tell 10 guys, 9 of which are just regular old men, that I'm not into trans men, implying to the 9 non trans men that I think they are trans? That's so fucking stupid. Why can't the 1 trans man say upfront that he's trans instead of me having to go around assuming everyone's trans? They've gotta know that they're an extreme minority of the population, right?