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[–]schomee 35 insightful - 2 fun35 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

"twink" is not a personality and im starting to really get annoyed by gay children being brainwashed into thinking male femininity should be like imitating shitty superficial female femininity. it's just so pathetic and wrong. i get that homophobia exists and prevented gay males from exploring their own femininity and expressed it in weird ways but we need to move passed that. So many gay males think gay culture includes "diva" icons. It's creepy and ends up damaging a lot of gay kids. And then they grow up wondering why no gay guy would find them attractive. Being naturally feminine and gay is fine but imitating kim kardashian is just highly, highly sexually and aesthetically repulsive.

I think the same goes for lesbians. There's some lesbian on tik tok and youtube who's supposedly extremely popular and she just seems like she's on the verge of transing any second. there's nothing natural about a white masculine lesbian acting like a ghetto black guy in her mannerisms, body movements and speech. there's something deeply wrong and creepy about us when we're brainwashed to be like this and it comes from not developing our culture properly to channel our gender...and some of us grow up being weird.

we're not even imitating them, we're brainwashed by them with this heterosexism.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Perfect answer.

[–]schomee 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This is what's wrong with the gay and lesbian community. There needs to be some sort of demarcation zone and some sort of separatism from heterosexuals in terms of culture to give experiences of what gays and lesbians are like and that stabilizes a lot of children and affirms the parts of themselves that arent damaged by being raised as straight kids.

That "twink" guy seems similar to how men would draw women in cartoons in the 90's that i grew up with: big sausage lips, annoying, narcissistic. Sure, there are differences in personalities and everyone has "quirks" but he's not even painted as a villain but as a positive representation for gay kids that teaches them to be cheap imitations of highly superficial women.

And even though they cant help it because it's ingrained in their psyche, you never see them being brainwashed by how a 50 year old woman's femininity is or a 60 year old's or a mother's femininity. It's the hyper sexual type. and when that's set in, it almost seems permanent and takes a great deal to recover from.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That is supremely fucked up. Acting like the worst kind of woman does not make a man attractive. In fact, heterosexual and bisexual men don’t want to date women who behave in this way. But if you point that out, you get accused of having "internalised homophobia", because apparently not wanting to be around shallow, obnoxious and crude men means you hate gay men? Funny thing is, there would be less homophobia out there if few gay men acted like that, and if this behaviour was condemned by the gay male community.