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How can cis people saying we have to disclose immediately be anything other than transphobia?

I mean, it is "transphobia" as they would describe. It's just cis people kind enough to play along with your fantasy until it impacts them.

Honestly, it's amazing that they demand more than this? "Disclose before dating" is the standard from cis people who just want to leave you alone to your delusions but don't genuinely believe transitioning makes you the opposite sex. It's the most tepid pushback and this still isn't good enough.