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    [–]PatsyStoneMaverique[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

    I see our place in the mainstream now and with interest groups. We are mostly accepted ish, I can move in straight circles, I do not get rejected or discriminated against regularly, I can make friends with people who are like me in personality and interests and not confine myself to those who don't hate me for being gay ie: other gay people.

    That's just not the case in large parts of the country. I grew up in an extremely homophobic environment, where even the self-identified liberals were ignorant about gay people and were mostly informed by stereotypes from TV.

    It puts people off to talk about all your heartbreaks, but I really suffered a lot trying to cope and trying to find some stability and support. I only just turned 33. I think the situation I was in 15 or so years ago has only gotten worse for gay kids in rural areas in terms of isolation and inadequate support. Especially lesbians and bisexual women.

    Edit: Sorry I assumed you're from the U.S., if you aren't. I'm talking about the United States.